Love and life

Love is but a sandy foundation to build a life on. A life requires sediment; rock, trees, dirt and sweat.
It requires disagreements and fights, falling down and getting back up.
So many people have fallen so many times that getting back up just isn’t worth it. It’s how we deal with set backs, that teach others our strengths. Do you believe in yourself?
The only person that you can really disappoint is you! Don’t let others disappointment in you cloud your judgement. It’s not worth it!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste!

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Valentine’s Day

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I think of Valentines Day as the ultimate “hallmark” holiday! I’m sure it comes from owning a pharmacy that sells the most expensive cards on VD to wife and Mother’s Day! It’s just too much. Celebrate love every day and forget what anyone else thinks. My daughter and her dad had a great time at the dance but is that love? Yes, he loves her unconditionally but I hope and pray she holds out for hearts and flowers and everything else.
I hope that I teach her that Love is more than just hearts and flowers. True love is being there, holding you when you cry and supporting you when you’re trying. Love is saying I’m proud of you and I enjoy spending time with you. Love is forgiveness and acceptance. That’s my Valentines summary. We need more than one day a year to confess our love! Never forget to say I love you to those who mean the most to you!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste

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Laughter

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Because laughter really is the best medicine for anything!
These photos were taken by a friend of mine in the classy place that I call my garage. Lots of people think I have the perfect life, but the one thing that makes it wonderful, is that I’m able to laugh at myself, and others, when necessary.
Laughter makes all the difference and a real smile is worth a million fake ones! Have a wonderful Valentine’s day, enjoy the full snow moon and laugh until your belly aches!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste !

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What is written isn’t always true

I am a writer. Often I write about things that I know, things familiar to me, and I’ve written for my entire life so not all of my writing is from my current perspective. Many things I write about are contrived, imaginations of my mind based on a lifetime of what I like to call “people watching”. Yes, my characters and story lines are generally based on this people watching and my characters are a combination of experiences that I have had in my life. If you feel yourself, as my friend or colleague, over scrutinized in my literature, it’s simply a coincidence. I don’t mean to make anyone uncomfortable so if you see yourself as one of my characters, then I am honored that you can relate to the things that I record. If you can relate, then so can the rest of the population, which is my goal.
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste
April

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Love

Falling in love….

Never will I fall in love again, because falling is for young girls and mistresses.
I will walk forward towards love like the adult woman that I am, full of passions and desire.
With you by my side, forever.
Never will I fall..
Never again.
I see you as you come home,
Humming your merry tune.
We may not choose who we love, but we choose how we love them,
And I love you to the moon and back times infinity.
What can I say about love?

Super Typhoon Haiyan

After a terrifying 7.2 earthquake last month, the Philippines has once again been rocked by devastation as super typhoon Haiyan surged the islands. My publishing liaison and his family live in the Philippines and I was horrified to see how little news coverage this has received on the networks. I emailed Julius to check on him and this is what he had to say,
“Thank you for writing and for your concerns. I hope I can express all the fears and sadness we have in this letter. There were so many lives that were lost compared as to what was counted over the news as well as thousands of houses and livelihood were devastated. Here in Cebu City were I work, took only less damages compared to Northern Visayas and Eastern Region were most of my family, relatives and friends resides – where lives and properties were lost. They need food, clothes, shelter and medicine and I don’t know if help coming from different countries can accommodate the majority.”

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The US has deployed an aircraft carrier and navy ships, while the UK is sending a naval destroyer.
The Philippines have been a major non-NATO alliance to the United States for 50 years, and we sit and discuss healthcare reform when thousands of our allies are going without medicine and drinking water.

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While millions of American dollars are spent at war and supporting countries that despise us, our friends in the Pacific Ocean are suffering.
“We need help. Nothing is happening. We haven’t eaten since yesterday afternoon,” pleaded a weeping Aristone Balute, an 81-year-old woman who failed to get a flight out of Tacloban for Manila, the capital. Her clothes were soaked from a pouring rain and tears streamed down her face.
Tacloban, a city of about 220,000 people on Leyte island, bore the full force of the winds and the tsunami-like storm surges Friday. Most of the city is in ruins, a tangled mess of destroyed houses, cars and trees. Malls, garages and shops have all been stripped of food and water by hungry residents.
Doctors in Tacloban said they were desperate for medicine.
I’ll be sending medicine. After the last Super Typhoon, I sent antibiotic creams, bandages, socks, shoes and anti fungal powders because when this kind of devastation hits, a small infection can be life threatening and these are inexpensive items here. Items such as toothbrushes and soap that may cost less than a dollar here are much needed there. I’m not sure how I’ll be handling my shipping yet so if you have any ideas let me know. I just feel that as a healthcare provider with children, knowing I could help someone I have a business relationship with, feels like a requirement. Same with Katrina, same with the India earthquakes. I’m calling on others to do the same.

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When I asked Julius what I could do to help, he humbly responded,
“Madam, whatever form of help will be appreciated. My colleagues plan to go North over the weekend and offered me a free ride. I can only bring some few stocks of food and water and some used clothes from my friends. I don’t know how soon your help can get to us. I am thankful for your assistance and i am praying to God to shower you with more blessings and your family.”
I will be shipping a package tomorrow.
So many veterans speak highly of The Philippines and the time they spent there. The great love of the people towards their family and friends alike is world known.
The Royal Australian Air Force also landed at Cebu, delivering a portable field hospital that was soon sent on its way to Tacloban. Taiwanese troops also arrived with medical aid, and Doctors Without Borders said three of nine cargo shipments it has planned also arrived in Cebu on Wednesday.
The slowness of delivery of food and basic medical aid is the biggest threat to lives.
“There are people there right now who can be saved. And it could be as simple as antibiotics that cost a penny.”

Contribute to Doctors Without Borders if nothing else!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste!

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Namaste’

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What a beautiful word for a beautiful concept. Yoga can be an essential influence on your mental health as well as your physical health! Sometimes it simply feels good to breathe. Find your spot and practice 10 minutes. Just to quiet our troubled lives and complicated routines, give yourself 10 minutes a day to breathe!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste
April

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Too long

It seems like it been so long since I’ve posted anything but life is crazy!
My son came home from college this weekend for the first visit that lasted longer than 24 hours.

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He finally got a haircut to match his beautiful face. We’ve had so much fun but Sunday looms in front of me knowing that he has to go back to school. It’s such a bittersweet moment watching your child grow up and make his own decisions about life. Luckily, two other children remain to keep me occupied. I love having Reece home. He cooks but doesn’t clean. He makes fun of my freestyle dance moves and he makes me proud to be his mother.
Here’s to an awesome weekend!
Think! Live! Love!
Namaste